In the event of a death, the Islamic Center of Greater Toledo advises its
members to contact the Mosque at (419) 874-3500 or (419) 874-3509. After
business hours you can call the Imam at his residence. If you are unable to
reach anybody, please call the Witzler Shank Funeral Home at (419) 874-3133 with
whom the Islamic Center has make all funeral arrangements. As of the date this
announcement, the costs to cover total funeral expenses including the lot is
estimated to be $3,000 - $4,000.
The Quranic verse:
"Every person is going to taste death"
indicates that Muslims
believe that one day each one of us will die and we will be accountable for our
deeds on the Day of Judgment. Only God knows the exact time of one's death. We
should, however, always be prepared to face death and we should abide by the
Islamic rules that relate to death and funeral.
Prophet Muhammed (P) recommended reciting:
"There is no God except God, and Muhammed is His Messenger"
by the side of the sick or dying person. It is also
encouraged to recite Surat Yasin. When a person is dead, it is advised by the
Prophet Muhammed (P) to say:
"In the name of God and following the Sunnah of the
Prophet of God"
Immediately after a person expires, someone nearby should close
the deceased's eyes and mouth, straighten out the arms and legs and the body
should be covered with a sheet.
Preparing the dead body for burial
Our Islamic Center has a unique arrangement with the funeral home that once a
person dies at home or at the hospital, the body is taken to the Islamic Center,
not the funeral home, for washing and shrouding purposes. Dead men are washed by
men and dead women are washed by women. It is also worthy to note that a wife
can wash a husband and vice versa. Burial should not be delayed and it is
preferable to bury the deceased the same day.
After washing according to the Islamic rules, the body is wrapped in a shroud.
This should be a medium quality white cloth, preferably cotton. The shroud
consists of three pieces for men and five pieces for women.
The funeral of a Muslim must be attended by at least a few in the community.
Funeral Prayer
The bier should be set in such a way that the head of the deceased should face
south and the feet north; and the face should be tilted in the direction of the
Qibla, i.e., right side of the body. This positioning applies to the United
States. There is no bowing (ruku) or prostration (sujood) in the funeral prayer.
The prayer is offered in the standing position facing the Qibla and the dead
body.
The number of rows of participants in a funeral prayer might be an odd number of
rows, if possible.
One should make an intention the they are praying the funeral prayer with four
takbir for the present deceased Muslim. After the first takbir, recite:
"Allah,
Thou art Pure and Sublime along with Thine praise and laudation. The Name brings
good and blessings; and Thy Greatness and Magnitude are highest. Great is Thy
Praise, and there is no god but Thee."
According to other schools of thought, one can recite Surat Al-Fatiha in
addition to the above.
After the second takbir, recite the Ibrahimi Dua' asking for blessings and mercy
for the Prophet. This is the normal dua' recited after "Attashahhud".
After the third takbir, recite a special prayer for the deceased for their
forgiveness and asking for a place in Paradise for them.
After the fourth takbir, finish the funeral prayer by saying Assalamu Alaikum to
the right and then to the left.
Burial
It is a matter of great importance that a special cemetery be devoted
exclusively for the use of Muslims. In the past, the Islamic Center had lots
available in two sections at Ottawa Hills Memorial Park in Sylvania. These lots
have all been sold and at the present time, the Islamic Center has
a section of
lots available in Waterville at the xxx Memorial Park. We should not waste money
unnecessarily for costly coffins. While entering a graveyard, the following
prayer may be recited:
"Peace be upon you, O Obedient faithfuls, the dwellers of
this place. God willing, soon we shall join you. We pray to God for you and
ourselves, that He may keep us safe."
The grave should be dug according to the direction of the Qibla, and the
deceased should be placed in the grave with his face turned to the right facing
the Qibla. The person(s) who place the deceased in the grave should say:
"In
the name of God and following the Sunnah of the Prophet of God"
It is recommended that those standing around the grave, after the coffin has
been lowered and before the covering has been placed, throw three handfuls of
earth into the grave. Next it is recommended to pray for the dead person.
Mourning
No loss, however great, should be permitted to sour one's outlook. Endurance
should be shown by the bereaved, who are recommended to praise God and say:
"We belong to Him, and to Him do we return"
Grief at the death of a relative or friend is normal. It is also formal and
usual to see people weeping for the deceased, and this is allowed in Islam. What
is completely forbidden is to express grief by wailing, shrieking, beating the
cheeks and tearing hear or clothes.
When mourning a dead person, care must be taken to avoid phrases that contradict
Islamic principles, e.g., "What will become of me now?" or "Now our supporter is
gone". This implies relying on human beings instead of God.
Charity for the Repose of the Departed Soul
Give something according to your means in charity for the peace of the departed
soul. But refrain from indulging in nonreligious and unauthorized practices and
rituals.
This page was composed by Arif Rasheed and M. Y.
Ahmed, M.D.
Approved by: Imam A. M. Khattab
posted 8/25/2003